Safety Tips
Last updated: 5 June 2026
Your safety is important. While Properly Met is designed to help people make genuine connections, it's important to use common sense and trust your instincts when meeting new people.
Protect your personal information
Be cautious about sharing personal details too quickly.
- Do not share your home address.
- Do not share financial information.
- Be careful when sharing your workplace location.
- Think carefully before sharing personal contact details.
Watch for red flags
Be cautious if someone:
- Refuses to video chat or verify who they are.
- Pushes for personal information very quickly.
- Creates a sense of urgency or pressure.
- Has inconsistent stories or profile information.
- Asks for money, gifts, loans, or financial help.
Never send money
Never send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, banking information, or financial assistance to someone you have met online.
Even if the story sounds convincing, requests for money are one of the most common forms of online dating fraud.
Meeting in person
If you decide to meet someone:
- Meet in a public place.
- Arrange your own transport.
- Tell a friend or family member where you are going.
- Keep your phone charged.
- Trust your instincts and leave if something feels wrong.
Respect boundaries
Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect.
- Accept "no" without pressure.
- Respect personal boundaries.
- Do not pressure anyone into meeting.
- Do not pressure anyone into sharing personal information.
Report suspicious behaviour
Please report any profile or behaviour that appears suspicious, abusive, fraudulent, or unsafe.
Reports help us keep Properly Met safe for everyone.
Remember
Most people on Properly Met are genuine, but your safety comes first. Take your time, trust your instincts, and don't feel pressured into anything you're not comfortable with.